don't like.
Wednesday, November 25, 2009 @ 1:46 AM
There are many things that we don't like but we kept quiet.
We didnt want to sound out, simply because dont wanna embarrass the people who are doing it.
we didnt want to hurt them.
but somehow.. sometimes.. things may go beyond control and it may affect the relationship..
so..
sometimes if you dont like.. just sound out. dont keep quiet.. if not no one will know how you feel..
i dont like..
come on.
if u have anything to ask me, ask. i will answer.
dont have to keep guessing and ask around.
one thing I dont like is people gossipping.
i dont like to gossip.
so normally when ppl starts to gossip, i walk away.
i feel that there is no need for gossipping. you are just indirectly hurting that person, and also.. tarnishing the image of that person.
and sometimes these gossips may get outa hand and may affect that person's life.
do u want that to happen?
or rather, do u want that to happen to you?
I was a victim, and I know how it feels, and until today, i still can feel how i felt at that point of time.
it felt horrible.
terrible.
hurt..
and like blah.
the healing time was long and tedious.
because it affected my life, slightly.
but thankfully i have good friends that helped me along the way.. i was able to stand up for myself again.
gossipping.. and back-stabbing.. these 2 things are very closely related, and u may not know how ur gossips will lead to back stabbing.
so dont start gossip.
do what u are supposed to do, ie. studying, working etc..
but really.. i dont like it.