Trust.

How much do you know about trust?
And how much do you trust the people around you?

If you trust this person that will accomplish a job given to him but ended up he did not do what he was told, can you still trust him?

If you trust this person and share secret with him but ended up he spread the secrets to everyone, can you still trust him?

If you trust this person but in the end he hurt you so bad, can you still trust him?

Can you still trust anyone?

Who was there when you need help the most?
Who walked away when you needed help?
Who talked about you to other people when you are in trouble?
Who spreaded rumours when everyone knows its not true?

Talking about Trust, how much do you know the person in order to Trust this person?
Is he your friend?
And do everyone trust their friends?

Friends
Look at the people around you..
Are they friends?
Or are they just acquaintance?
Who do we consider as friends?
So.. do you trust them?
Do all friends share secrets?
And if they leak out your secrets, are they still consider as friends?

Best friends, good friends ... ...
Best friend, trustworthy?
Talking about best friend..
Since its called "BEST" friend, isn't that means that you can only have one "BEST" friend, because he or she is the BEST?
And what about good friends?
Meaning.. closer ones? But not as close as good friends?
So do you know each other well?
Do you understand each other?
Will you be there when someone needs help?
Will you share secrets?
Will you leak out their secrets?
Will you talk bad things about your friends behind their back?
Will you try to help them?
So do you trust them?


How many of you ever experienced this..
"Suddenly, you feel that you have no friends anymore.."
"Your so-called best friends are against you"
"Your so-called good friends have been talking about you"

You feel empty.
You feel lost.
You don't know what to do.
And there is no one to turn to.

You have to start from the beginning..
To know your friends again..
to gain back their trust..

But..
how is it possible to trust them again?
how do you know that they wont do the same thing again?



it takes a few years to build strong friendship
but it just take one minute to break it.

it takes a few years to gain trust..
but it just take one second to lose trust..





Hohoho..
I was just thinking of random thoughts..
And I find it hard to trust someone..

Sometimes it takes alot of courage to let a person know you..
and after they know you..
you will have the fear of losing them..
probably its just part of a cycle in life..

we meet different kinds of people.
and we make friends.
but as time goes, friends will go in seperate ways..
who knows..

i feel..
"friends forever" is bullshit when you never make an effort to maintain it..
"keep in touch" is "Blah" when you dont even contact the person..


i was just thinking..
some random thoughts run through my mind again..
sometimes i let my mind wander off too far away..
that make me think of weird stuffs and in the end..
i made myself confused.
or maybe, I am confused.
or rather, still confused...

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